Religion is a choince not something imposed

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With so many religions in the world one can never tell which one is best for his spiritual wellbeing. In most instances you find a group belonging to a certain religious group in contrast with other religions by saying they are right and every other religion is misleading the people into false beliefs. Some people are born in a family that belongs to a certain religion that they don’t get a chance to choose for themselves a religion that they think is best.

When born in a Christian family for example, you are expected to grow up to be a Christian and not be part of any religion, but the truth is religion is a choice you must make as a person, not something that’s imposed to you by family, spouse or anyone for that matter. A person has a choice to be part of any religion that he wants to be part of, in South Africa that is a constitutional right.

I for one am a Christian, everything I do is in sync with the Christian ways – well at some degree I think. But that don’t make me look down on other religions and say things like what they preach is not in the bible because I do not understand their ways nor have I been to one of their services to get a clear understanding of their believes. I believe every religion has an essential role it plays spiritually so if you don’t know how they do things and why they do those things the way they do those things when they praying or at church you are in no position to say what they do at the end of the day it all comes to belief, if people believe in something, God will provide for them and they will see miracles happening in their lives and if they do not believe nothing will happen. Every person has the right to choose any religion of his or her choice without being pressurized by family or anyone because all religions have a common goal which is seeing the kingdom of god when they souls get separated from their bodies, what’s is different is how they go about to save their souls.

Don't take what a girl you just met say personal



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It is easy for a guy to go from being extremely happy to being depressed in a matter of seconds after a conversation with a girl they just met. The reason for their abrupt change of mood is attributed to what a girl said in response to what a guy said or because the girl didn’t respond in a way that they would have liked. It doesn’t have to be like that because as an individual you are in control of your emotions and giving a stranger the power to change your mood is utterly a bad move on a guy’s part especially when he is trying to get his mack on.

The apparent mistake that most guys make when conversing with a girl they just met – whether a friendly chat or chatting with her with an intention of getting under her pants – is that they put needless pressure on themselves and worry too much on the girl’s response instead of focusing on the actual conversation.

As guys we shouldn’t worry about the outcome of approaching because that will make us to start making assumptions that the girl might reject us or we not worthy of her time and that is why when things don’t go the way we would have like our mood changes. But if we keep our heads on the game and talk to girls the way we talk to friends nothing she says will make us feel bad because we don’t care of how she responds but rather our focus is on what we are saying.

The thing is a lot of people are feel and experience a lot of thing in one day so one can never really tell how the girl is feeling like, for example she has baby daddy issues, she got dumped, she’s in a bad mood or she is just a lesbian and is not to guys at all. So if you talk to a girl that is experiencing one of the factors above and she says something harsh and you take it personal is not the way to go, rather make fun of her bad mood.

If things don’t go well during an interaction or she hits a nerve with her response its fine, don’t take it personal just keep calm and move on because life is too short to feel sorry for ourselves. Remember girls get approached all the time by a whole lot of crazy guys to the point where some girls just shut every guy out as a defense mechanism, so feeling bad because of that is frustrating yourself on something you have no control over.