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It is easy
for a guy to go from being extremely happy to being depressed in a matter of
seconds after a conversation with a girl they just met. The reason for their
abrupt change of mood is attributed to what a girl said in response to what a
guy said or because the girl didn’t respond in a way that they would have
liked. It doesn’t have to be like that because as an individual you are in
control of your emotions and giving a stranger the power to change your mood is
utterly a bad move on a guy’s part especially when he is trying to get his mack
on.
The
apparent mistake that most guys make when conversing with a girl they just met –
whether a friendly chat or chatting with her with an intention of getting under
her pants – is that they put needless pressure on themselves and worry too much
on the girl’s response instead of focusing on the actual conversation.
As guys we shouldn’t
worry about the outcome of approaching because that will make us to start
making assumptions that the girl might reject us or we not worthy of her time
and that is why when things don’t go the way we would have like our mood
changes. But if we keep our heads on the game and talk to girls the way we talk
to friends nothing she says will make us feel bad because we don’t care of how
she responds but rather our focus is on what we are saying.
The thing
is a lot of people are feel and experience a lot of thing in one day so one
can never really tell how the girl is feeling like, for example she has baby
daddy issues, she got dumped, she’s in a bad mood or she is just a lesbian and
is not to guys at all. So if you talk to a girl that is experiencing one of the
factors above and she says something harsh and you take it personal is not the
way to go, rather make fun of her bad mood.
If things
don’t go well during an interaction or she hits a nerve with her response its
fine, don’t take it personal just keep calm and move on because life is too
short to feel sorry for ourselves. Remember girls get approached all the time
by a whole lot of crazy guys to the point where some girls just shut every guy
out as a defense mechanism, so feeling bad because of that is frustrating yourself
on something you have no control over.
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