Some people
have this notion that in order for them to succeed in their careers, or in
their studies they need to drop everything else and only focus on achieving
that goal – whether is getting that highest qualification or being the best at
what they do in their respective profession. Some go as far as not having a
social life all together and focus on acquiring that degree. Some focus so much
on their careers that it become their life and by the time they want to start
having a social life or dating they realise it is too late for them because
they old and everyone is taken or clueless about dating and relationships that
they keep saying the wrong things. It doesn’t have to be that way, you can have
both social life and focus on achieving whatever goal you have simultaneously. Being
a party animal and a career person is no recipe for failure if you do it right.
There is a misconception that if you
play hard and work hard you may lose focus and end up failing to achieve your
goal, but the reality is you can balance, have a wild social life and still be
the best at what you do.
The high
levels of anxiety at work or school are attributed to focusing too much on what
you doing that you think about it all the time to the point that you start
doubting you can do it despite the hours you put in it. But, if you take time
out once in a while to have fun with friends then go back to the assignment you
were working on later, you may get the inspiration you needed to overcome that obstacle
you had. Stressing and worrying about hitting a brick wall in what you were
working on doesn’t help because you will be thinking about it but not coming up
with solutions. As the saying goes “worrying is like a rocking chair, it gives
you something to do but it don’t get you anywhere,” going partying or on a date
while you on a deadline might be what you need to stimulate your mind and
inspire new ideas because while you out having fun, you wouldn’t be thinking
about work. When you come back to what you were working on; your mind would be
fresh and full of ideas.
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Give it
your 100% in every project you working on but don’t turn that into your life to
the point that it ends up being the only thing you do. When feeling overwhelmed
by it, take time out and hit the clubs – hence the title of this peace, ‘WORK
HARD AND PLAY HARDER.’ When I was still in varsity and we had a hectic schedule
of back to back assignments and tests that all of my classmates would be going
around campus like headless chickens with more than five books in their hands
that they borrowed from the library, worrying, stressing and school would be
the only topic they talk about. My boys and I we would be calm, laughing,
having fun, making plans for the weekend while doing our assignments, and when
we feel like we tired or have done enough for the day we would walk to the
liquor store and buy ourselves a nice bottle and drink up – true story. At that
moment school would be the last thing on our minds, but later that night we
sleep over at Nhlahla’s place and work the whole night.
We made a
name for ourselves because our classmates would see us drinking while they were
worrying about assignments, but when the results come back we passed; well it
wasn’t distinctions but it was the right mark enough to get us to the next year.
People started thinking that we geniuses but the truth was we not. We just never
allowed ourselves to be stressed about school work because when the going was
getting tough, we relaxed and had a good time, but when we get home we make
sure we work hard to achieve our goal.
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Never allow your goal to control who you are
because really if you give it your all in your work, put in the hours and
effort, having wild nights in between will never derail you and prevent you
from getting that promotion or graduating cum lauder in your qualification. Remember
you are awesome and if you put your mind into something nothing can stop you to
get it
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