SEX IN UNCONVENTIONAL PLACES

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So you bored in the bedroom? What you do to bring the spark back is what matters

It is not that hard to be bored by your sex life, a story from a friend about what she and her boyfriend did the previous night or seeing that steamy sex scene in a movie can make you realise that you have a boring sex life; especially when you know you can never try what you saw or heard with your partner because he is conservative. That can be frustrating or even make you lose interest in sex all together because it is the same thing all night every night.  Sex should be spontaneous, fun, wild and exhilarating because it is the crucial element of every relationship, it is what makes you keep coming for more and excited especially when you can never predict how it is going to be like when it happens.

So the traditional sex in the bedroom with your partner is no longer the only place where you can give and receive pleasure. Sex doesn’t have to be a bedroom affair only anymore, but couples can be creative by trying all sorts of new ways to indulge on sex in other places to fulfill all their sexual fantasies. It is not up to the guy to initiate sex or come up with ideas to spice up the romance but a mutual responsibility for both parties. You don’t need to wait for a man to be turned on and when he does get turned on you guys take it to the bedroom and have sex using the same old missionary position when you can just do it right there and then.

When your man is too traditional or shy to try new sex moves or take sex out of the bedroom, you just need to train that man. Turn him into the sex crazed horny beast that you want him to be by talking to him, make that man understand the significance of having great, spontaneous sex with mind blowing orgasms all the time which doesn’t  entirely has to happen in the bedroom, as that is key to a healthy relationship. If he’s too stubborn or proud to listen to a woman telling him what to do in bed – other places -  what he needs is that surprise visit in his office dressed in your nurse outfit under your coat and blow his mind right there in his office desk and show him what he is been missing out on.

That sense of danger that you might be seen by someone is what makes it so interesting and the orgasms are always glorious because is not what you both used too. Now you shouldn’t go to the extreme now and start having sex in all crazy places you can think of like the bathroom in the mall or in an office where anyone can come in; but rather at a place that is unconventional but yet discreet, where you can play and be able to scream when you feel like screaming. The whole point is to have a good time and enjoy the penetration.

Take sex out of the bedroom to the kitchen, shower, pool, balcony, roof top, at a friend’s place while she is out to get more wine at the store, a quickie on the beach etc. Doing that will bring back the interest and fun to sex because each time you are alone with your partner; in that quiet place you’ll just want to rip him off his clothes and the same thing would be going through his mind.